I am happy that the Steubenville, Ohio rape case is over. I think they should have been a bit more harsher to them. They say their lives is ruined because they may not get picked by a college, but they belittled a young woman and treated her like trash. I think it would be better if they added maybe another 2 or 3 years to the minimum sentence. Let them feel what she felt like, and I see how they like it. And we cannot blame it only on the boys. The enablers are also doing it too, thinking this was not a violent crime. The police should take this as a wake up call and think more of the evidence and not boys reputations. If they would have taken the phones for evidence, they would have seen these boys were no angels.
I, myself, hate seeing people getting taken advantage of. But when people don't mind their manners and treat people the way they want to be treated, makes me feel they deserve to feel the consequences.
There is people out there saying that she deserved it because she regretted it later so called it rape. What about the photos, drunk does not mean yes and passed out does not mean come and get it... So all you close minded people need to grow up and just so the world knows I am glad the young woman and many like her can see what some sort of justice.
With other news... Today is a gloomy and snowy day and myself and Jacob is going to have fun shopping. Hope everyone it ready for Easter. I know I have not even started yet. WISH me luck.
Almost forgot, Peace out
So far it is 1/1/13 and I already had a interesting experience. I hope she reads this and if you know her let her know. Her name is Kait Keener she has many different names, my favorite is the drunken skank of my husband's past. Through out the day she was nice trying to talk to me. She got so drunk that my husband, being an EMT, felt the need to check on her while she was puking the contents of her stomach out. So while she was puking everything up and had nothing else to puke, she thought it was a good idea to confess a few things to him. First was that she was not over him yet, which we both already knew. Then she goes on and tells him in front of her bf/date that she only comes to these parties is to make him jealous and that he still misses and wants him. When my husband told her that he was happy with me and that was that. She says she doesn't care. I wonder what her boyfriend feels about that.
If you know this woman, and you a female watch your men closely. Otherwise she will get close to him using a social media site or text or ever instant messaging. She thought she can get Mario through texting and instant messaging. She has many Facebook site profiles and she has no problem pretending to be your friend and use you to get close either.
Why am I writing about it now in my blog because I am posting it to warn others. I know I don't have many followers, but I hope others that know her will learn what I know.
And other than that I have a wonderful year. We won custody of Mario's adorable son, had a blast at Kalahari two times this year. Jacob only got sick 2 times, no lice, going to preschool and healthy big boy. I am proud to be his step mom.
On another note, Me Jacob and Mario had a great day out. Went shopping, had red lobster and Jacob practiced his letters. He is getting better at it. I am so proud of him. He is also in preschool. I am glad he has more friends. This coming year for his birthday he should have a lot friends and family. I cannot wait for this year to be up.
As for everything else, I am still working my butt off and Mario is still in school.
Well sorry this was so short. I just wanted to vent and give an update.
I am sure you are wondering why my post is titled upsetting. Well Mario's ex (the egg donor) left for her new life in Texas on July 22 2012. Jacob has not spoke with her or seen her on Facebook since then. I know she does not like me but she messaged Mario on Facebook saying she will call and talk to him. today Aug 21 2012. and we were out and about with him, so we messaged her to call a certain number because we did not setup the call forwarding on accident. she seen and knew this at 4:07 pm and she was to call at 8 pm. so it was plenty of warning. so I guess it was not worth her time to talk to Jacob because the number was my number.
It is sad, Jacob is her and Mario's baby boy and Jacob should not go month without speaking with Malissa. But it is a 2 way street, Malissa should not be forced to talk to him. Jacob is a great little boy. I love him and hate having him think his mother does not love him or think he is not worth the time to talk to him.
Honestly I hope she proves me wrong and I hope she grows a pair and decides to talk to this lovely baby boy.
GPS was called a map or mapquest
Ipod was a cassette player
Ereader was a book
blue ray was dvd, and dvd was vhs
wii fit was a gym
well you get my point. I love how technology has grown and It is awesome.
Well today is July 25th and it was a wonderful month. My brother graduated from high school. Jacob is with us and went to the beach on the 24th. I finally get Sundays off from work and me and Mario's 1year mark of our wedding happens in less than a month. And hopefully no more baby momma drama.
And on the 31st i get my next tattoo.