2016 ended

OMG, I was going through my facebook then I see it. Wow. I have not typed on this blog in so long. 

Well here is goes I am still working at my last job since 3/2011. Hopefully not much longer, but we will see. 

Jacob is in the second grade. He is going strong and is overcoming his ADHD. His bad days are few to none. I am super proud of him. 

I hope to get this job, I have been excited since I got the interview planned out. 

Mario is working and doing great too. 

We are pretty happy so far. We hope 2017 has much to offer. 

Yay..

If you are still reading this I hope to have more info at a later date..

💗💗💗💗  Jessica and her family💗💗💗💗

Turning 27 and other info

This month I turn 27 years old. I honestly don't want much. Maybe a movie and relaxation.
The ultimate present would to allow me to the ability to adopt Jacob. Jacob is finally adjusted to the fact that his biological mom does not care. She has not talked to him since 4/21/13. I feel helpless, it is crazy that Jacob has to learn that his mother cannot get over herself and call him.
Jacob is awesome, I mean I am not going to say he is a perfect angel. but he is a smart, smiley, happy child. He know it has been a long time since his mom has talked to him. at least once a week he picks up his phone and say really loudly, "I am mad because my mommy won't talk to me." then he will hang up with that person and call his mom and say "mommy you have to stop being bad and talk to me" in which he acts like her and says "I know bubby". Last week was really hard on me because he sat down with Mario (his dad) and said with the saddest look on his face "Mommy does not love me anymore". I cried right there because I heard the hurt in his voice and I say the tears in his eyes. Right then and there I vowed to try to be strong for Jacob especially with issues that involve the bitch that is his bio mom.I may be momma Jess, but he is my son and I love him with all my beating heart.
Well to change the subject a bit, Mario and Jacob are arguing about me. Jacob wants me to have a boy and Mario wants me to have a girl. I would really love to have a girl but I will be excited no matter what. If I do have a boy that would be nice too, I won't be as nervous cause I grew up around boys.

My Darling Family

Well I am going to catch you up with current living from March til June of 2013...
Well Mario First... In March we had some rough patches, but we did it.
Mario was at Stark State University, now he will be attending YSU starting August.  So that will save me big bucks cause he won't be driving to canton all the time. The rough patches are not of me and him. They are of Mario's Ex GF and Me and the way she is treating her son.But Mario has showed on many occasions that he can take care of that. Mario is a wonderful husband and father.
Jacob is my darling little boy. We finally got Jacob to calm down. Mainly because we don't even bother telling him what day it is. Every once in a while when he sees us sitting at the PC waiting for her to video chat with him  he will realize "oh today maybe the day I get to see mommy or speak to mommy. " But he has not cried at night about it anymore, because he knows it is not us keeping him from her, but it is her doing it.
I am so proud of Jacob, he passed his early preschool. He can write his name (just the first name), this year he may have to do his last name next. I hope he does not need to write his full name, that will take up a lot of paper. Lets just say he has 2 middle names and a really long last name. The 2 middle names were not our idea. Baby momma gave them to him. I know she had good intentions for them, but Jacob is the one that would have to write them on job/career/college apps not her. I feel bad for him when he gets older. Plus it will be a mouth full when I say his full name.
We went to the circus, Kalahari, next is Iowa to see family there. Jacob is super excited.
Well that is about it. Peace out...
Love Me.

Life in ohio March 2013

Well lots of things happen in Ohio, Not just the weather changes. I mean think about it , one day it almost looks like spring has come, then next it is hail and snow.

I am happy that the Steubenville, Ohio rape case is over. I think they should have been a bit more harsher to them. They say their lives is ruined because they may not get picked by a college, but they belittled a young woman and treated her like trash. I think it would be better if they added maybe another 2 or 3 years to the minimum sentence. Let them feel what she felt like, and I see how they like it. And we cannot blame it only on the boys. The enablers are also doing it too, thinking this was not a violent crime. The police should take this as a wake up call and think more of the evidence and not boys reputations. If they would have taken the phones for evidence, they would have seen these boys were no angels.

I, myself, hate seeing people getting taken advantage of. But when people don't mind their manners and treat people the way they want to be treated, makes me feel they deserve to feel the consequences.

There is people out there saying that she deserved it because she regretted it later so called it rape. What about the photos, drunk does not mean yes and passed out does not mean come and get it... So all you close minded people need to grow up and just so the world knows I am glad the young woman and many like her can see what some sort of justice.

With other news... Today is a gloomy and snowy day and myself and Jacob is going to have fun shopping. Hope everyone it ready for Easter. I know I have not even started yet. WISH me luck.

Almost forgot, Peace out

New Years

Well we survived another year. Everyone that believed in the end of the world was 12/21/12. I bet they did not think they would see the signs of 2013. Well what do you think now.

So far it is 1/1/13 and I already had a interesting experience. I hope she reads this and if you know her let her know. Her name is Kait Keener she has many different names, my favorite is the drunken skank of my husband's past. Through out the day she was nice trying to talk to me. She got so drunk that my husband, being an EMT, felt the need to check on her while she was puking the contents of her stomach out. So while she was puking everything up and had nothing else to puke, she thought it was a good idea to confess a few things to him. First was that she was not over him yet, which we both already knew. Then she goes on and tells him in front of her bf/date that she only comes to these parties is to make him jealous and that he still misses and wants him. When my husband told her that he was happy with me and that was that. She says she doesn't care. I wonder what her boyfriend feels about that.

If you know this woman, and you a female watch your men closely. Otherwise she will get close to him using a social media site or text or ever instant messaging. She thought she can get Mario through texting and instant messaging. She has many Facebook site profiles and she has no problem pretending to be your friend and use you to get close either.

Why am I writing about it now in my blog because I am posting it to warn others. I know I don't have many followers, but I hope others that know her will learn what I know.

And other than that I have a wonderful year. We won custody of Mario's adorable son, had a blast at Kalahari two times this year. Jacob only got sick 2 times, no lice, going to preschool and healthy big boy. I am proud to be his step mom.

Fun Stuff

Well I think Mario won the bet, the egg donor missed Jacob's web cam chat. Poor Jacob, he is sad about it. I hate that she did this. Jacob always seems to pay for it because she is a B*tch. At least I sent to her a message if we were going to be late. She completely forgot about him. She has Me and Mario's House phone number. She needs to seriously get a planner an a address book. It is retarded that she will tell Jacob she will see him today and never appear. She does not even deserve to have Jacob as a son.

On another note, Me Jacob and Mario had a great day out. Went shopping, had red lobster and Jacob practiced his letters. He is getting better at it. I am so proud of him. He is also in preschool. I am glad he has more friends. This coming year for his birthday he should have a lot friends and family. I cannot wait for this year to be up.

As for everything else, I am still working my butt off and Mario is still in school.

Well sorry this was so short. I just wanted to vent and give an update.
Peace out
Jessica

Upsetting

Today was a very busy day. Jacob had a dentist appointment. All looks great. he needs to brush his back teeth more but all in all great. Went to canton to get Mario's college books. Also went Mario's Aunt and Uncle's home. We had a wonderful day.
I am sure you are wondering why my post is titled upsetting. Well Mario's ex (the egg donor) left for her new life in Texas on July 22 2012. Jacob has not spoke with her or seen her on Facebook since then. I know she does not like me but she messaged Mario on Facebook saying she will call and talk to him. today Aug 21 2012. and we were out and about with him, so we messaged her to call a certain number because we did not setup the call forwarding on accident. she seen and knew this at 4:07 pm and she was to call at 8 pm. so it was plenty of warning. so I guess it was not worth her time to talk to Jacob because the number was my number.
It is sad, Jacob is her and Mario's baby boy and Jacob should not go month without speaking with Malissa. But it is a 2 way street, Malissa should not be forced to talk to him. Jacob is a great little boy. I love him and hate having him think his mother does not love him or think he is not worth the time to talk to him.
Honestly I hope she proves me wrong and I hope she grows a pair and decides to talk to this lovely baby boy.