I hate drama

For this month, there was no need for the crap that happened.
Week of May 5th my step son gets returned home in a 24 month jumper, no socks, tennis shoes, and nail polish.
So when the week of Mother's day, we asked her to not paint his nails or have anyone else paint his nails, and she flipped out. Then we told him for now on needs to be in clothes that fit him with socks with tennis shoes. She threaten to take Jacob then told her mother that Mario threatened her. so I was seat right there and we know how to cover ourselves.
Then then week of the 20th she decided to play nice, knowing we are not scared of her threats and it will do more damage to her then hurt to us.
But what gets me the most she blames me, probably because she still wants to be with Mario and it is easier to blame me when I am not around. But she needs to realize Mario is a married man and he is the one that makes his own mind up. I can only tell him what to do, he can choose to listen or not. So she needs to think about that again.
This week ( Memorial Day Weekend) I wonder if she has it in her to actually say something to me. I guess we will see.

****Update**** (5/29/12)
Well she did not do anything. She acted nice and so did her step dad, because she needs a body guard.  All I want is for everyone to be able to live in the same world together without killing each other. Is that so hard to do. It is not like Jacob asked to have 2 parents that hate each other.
I just hope that she does the same as us. We get Jacob excited to go over to his mother's so that he is not thinking we hate each other. It makes a huge difference, because when we first say it is almost time to leave to see mommy. And then he looks at you and says I will miss you and I don't want to be hurt.
17 more days till Kalahari. Jacob, Mario, Russ and Caryn are exciting. This is going to be a blast.

thoughts that crossed my mind today 5/7/12

I am a step mother to a wonderful little guy. But his biological mother kinda makes me mad. Not for the fact that she is the real mother, but for the way she treated him from birth til now. He has been through so much and he has no idea about it because he was so young and still is. all she can do is blame it on this person and that person. I am so happy that he now has a proper roof over his head and a sable family environment. Of course not every family is perfect, but he really needed to get out of that house.