Well I think Mario won the bet, the egg donor missed Jacob's web cam chat. Poor Jacob, he is sad about it. I hate that she did this. Jacob always seems to pay for it because she is a B*tch. At least I sent to her a message if we were going to be late. She completely forgot about him. She has Me and Mario's House phone number. She needs to seriously get a planner an a address book. It is retarded that she will tell Jacob she will see him today and never appear. She does not even deserve to have Jacob as a son.
On another note, Me Jacob and Mario had a great day out. Went shopping, had red lobster and Jacob practiced his letters. He is getting better at it. I am so proud of him. He is also in preschool. I am glad he has more friends. This coming year for his birthday he should have a lot friends and family. I cannot wait for this year to be up.
As for everything else, I am still working my butt off and Mario is still in school.
Well sorry this was so short. I just wanted to vent and give an update.
Peace out
Jessica
Sunday
Tuesday
Upsetting
Today was a very busy day. Jacob had a dentist appointment. All looks great. he needs to brush his back teeth more but all in all great. Went to canton to get Mario's college books. Also went Mario's Aunt and Uncle's home. We had a wonderful day.
I am sure you are wondering why my post is titled upsetting. Well Mario's ex (the egg donor) left for her new life in Texas on July 22 2012. Jacob has not spoke with her or seen her on Facebook since then. I know she does not like me but she messaged Mario on Facebook saying she will call and talk to him. today Aug 21 2012. and we were out and about with him, so we messaged her to call a certain number because we did not setup the call forwarding on accident. she seen and knew this at 4:07 pm and she was to call at 8 pm. so it was plenty of warning. so I guess it was not worth her time to talk to Jacob because the number was my number.
It is sad, Jacob is her and Mario's baby boy and Jacob should not go month without speaking with Malissa. But it is a 2 way street, Malissa should not be forced to talk to him. Jacob is a great little boy. I love him and hate having him think his mother does not love him or think he is not worth the time to talk to him.
Honestly I hope she proves me wrong and I hope she grows a pair and decides to talk to this lovely baby boy.
I am sure you are wondering why my post is titled upsetting. Well Mario's ex (the egg donor) left for her new life in Texas on July 22 2012. Jacob has not spoke with her or seen her on Facebook since then. I know she does not like me but she messaged Mario on Facebook saying she will call and talk to him. today Aug 21 2012. and we were out and about with him, so we messaged her to call a certain number because we did not setup the call forwarding on accident. she seen and knew this at 4:07 pm and she was to call at 8 pm. so it was plenty of warning. so I guess it was not worth her time to talk to Jacob because the number was my number.
It is sad, Jacob is her and Mario's baby boy and Jacob should not go month without speaking with Malissa. But it is a 2 way street, Malissa should not be forced to talk to him. Jacob is a great little boy. I love him and hate having him think his mother does not love him or think he is not worth the time to talk to him.
Honestly I hope she proves me wrong and I hope she grows a pair and decides to talk to this lovely baby boy.
Monday
Technology
I was thinking if you look back when I was growing up tivio, smartphone, and tiny ipod did not exist. I thought it was the bomb when i got cable and internet. If you think about it we have so much now than we ever did.
GPS was called a map or mapquest
Ipod was a cassette player
Ereader was a book
blue ray was dvd, and dvd was vhs
wii fit was a gym
well you get my point. I love how technology has grown and It is awesome.
GPS was called a map or mapquest
Ipod was a cassette player
Ereader was a book
blue ray was dvd, and dvd was vhs
wii fit was a gym
well you get my point. I love how technology has grown and It is awesome.
Wednesday
July 2012
Well today is July 25th and it was a wonderful month. My brother graduated from high school. Jacob is with us and went to the beach on the 24th. I finally get Sundays off from work and me and Mario's 1year mark of our wedding happens in less than a month. And hopefully no more baby momma drama.
And on the 31st i get my next tattoo.
I hate drama
For this month, there was no need for the crap that happened.
Week of May 5th my step son gets returned home in a 24 month jumper, no socks, tennis shoes, and nail polish.
So when the week of Mother's day, we asked her to not paint his nails or have anyone else paint his nails, and she flipped out. Then we told him for now on needs to be in clothes that fit him with socks with tennis shoes. She threaten to take Jacob then told her mother that Mario threatened her. so I was seat right there and we know how to cover ourselves.
Then then week of the 20th she decided to play nice, knowing we are not scared of her threats and it will do more damage to her then hurt to us.
But what gets me the most she blames me, probably because she still wants to be with Mario and it is easier to blame me when I am not around. But she needs to realize Mario is a married man and he is the one that makes his own mind up. I can only tell him what to do, he can choose to listen or not. So she needs to think about that again.
This week ( Memorial Day Weekend) I wonder if she has it in her to actually say something to me. I guess we will see.
****Update**** (5/29/12)
Well she did not do anything. She acted nice and so did her step dad, because she needs a body guard. All I want is for everyone to be able to live in the same world together without killing each other. Is that so hard to do. It is not like Jacob asked to have 2 parents that hate each other.
I just hope that she does the same as us. We get Jacob excited to go over to his mother's so that he is not thinking we hate each other. It makes a huge difference, because when we first say it is almost time to leave to see mommy. And then he looks at you and says I will miss you and I don't want to be hurt.
17 more days till Kalahari. Jacob, Mario, Russ and Caryn are exciting. This is going to be a blast.
Week of May 5th my step son gets returned home in a 24 month jumper, no socks, tennis shoes, and nail polish.
So when the week of Mother's day, we asked her to not paint his nails or have anyone else paint his nails, and she flipped out. Then we told him for now on needs to be in clothes that fit him with socks with tennis shoes. She threaten to take Jacob then told her mother that Mario threatened her. so I was seat right there and we know how to cover ourselves.
Then then week of the 20th she decided to play nice, knowing we are not scared of her threats and it will do more damage to her then hurt to us.
But what gets me the most she blames me, probably because she still wants to be with Mario and it is easier to blame me when I am not around. But she needs to realize Mario is a married man and he is the one that makes his own mind up. I can only tell him what to do, he can choose to listen or not. So she needs to think about that again.
This week ( Memorial Day Weekend) I wonder if she has it in her to actually say something to me. I guess we will see.
****Update**** (5/29/12)
Well she did not do anything. She acted nice and so did her step dad, because she needs a body guard. All I want is for everyone to be able to live in the same world together without killing each other. Is that so hard to do. It is not like Jacob asked to have 2 parents that hate each other.
I just hope that she does the same as us. We get Jacob excited to go over to his mother's so that he is not thinking we hate each other. It makes a huge difference, because when we first say it is almost time to leave to see mommy. And then he looks at you and says I will miss you and I don't want to be hurt.
17 more days till Kalahari. Jacob, Mario, Russ and Caryn are exciting. This is going to be a blast.
Monday
thoughts that crossed my mind today 5/7/12
I am a step mother to a wonderful little guy. But his biological mother
kinda makes me mad. Not for the fact that she is the real mother, but
for the way she treated him from birth til now. He has been through so much and he has no idea about it because he was so young and still is.
all she can do is blame it on this person and that person. I am so
happy that he now has a proper roof over his head and a sable family
environment. Of course not every family is perfect, but he really needed
to get out of that house.
Tuesday
April 17
Sorry for not being on lately. I am happy. We go custody of Jacob. Now we are trying to get stay in peace with Mario's baby momma and so far we have been OK, just a few incidents.
Jacob is transitioning perfectly. I love him so much. I hope everything continues in his favor and well-being.
Other than that, I am still working and Mario is still in college. Jacob is loving it here.
Jacob is transitioning perfectly. I love him so much. I hope everything continues in his favor and well-being.
Other than that, I am still working and Mario is still in college. Jacob is loving it here.
This is awesome news for 2012
As of February 13 of 2012 Jacob will be living with us and we will get out custody. The papers say joint and I hope she keeps it that way. I hope she will stay involved in his life forever. Jacob deserves both parents, and i will treat him as if he is my own. Basically that mean Jacob is going to be the luckiest baby I know. He will have mother's family, father's family and my family. He will be spoiled rotten.
More news later.
More news later.
Monday
Monday has come.
Well now I reveal where we are today. Kalahari in Sandusky Ohio. Jacob is having a blast. Tomorrow is our trial for custody. Wish us luck. Here is a pic of part of our fun today. More to come, keep reading....
Tuesday at court we all called our witnesses and the judge wants to think before making the judgement. Totally understandable. So in 7 to 10 days we will get a lettering the mail stating yes or no on custody.
Wednesday
The start of 2012
Today Jan. 11 of 2012 is great.
Let's Start with beginning Dec 31 of 2011 was weird, first we had a 4.0 earthquake that I didn't even feel. But then my husband's ex showed up at a mutual friends house that we were going to party with. Needless to say she did not stay long.
Than after midnight me and my husband stayed up and help his cousin (my friend) not puke in her sleep.
Then the next day we headed off to Michigan to pick up his son.
What a weekend!!
I started school again on the 9th. My objective is to be graduated by 2013. Might be a long shot, but I am trying.
Then on the 17th we go for our custody trial. Word to the wise, we have a strong offense and defense. Hope people are prepared. None the less, 9 am is going to be killer when u find out what we will be doing the 16th through the 18th. I will give u a clue. It is in Sandusky Ohio and it is fun for both adults and children. Give up? Find out on Monday the 16th.
Ta ta for now.
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