This month I turn 27 years old. I honestly don't want much. Maybe a movie and relaxation.
The ultimate present would to allow me to the ability to adopt Jacob. Jacob is finally adjusted to the fact that his biological mom does not care. She has not talked to him since 4/21/13. I feel helpless, it is crazy that Jacob has to learn that his mother cannot get over herself and call him.
Jacob is awesome, I mean I am not going to say he is a perfect angel. but he is a smart, smiley, happy child. He know it has been a long time since his mom has talked to him. at least once a week he picks up his phone and say really loudly, "I am mad because my mommy won't talk to me." then he will hang up with that person and call his mom and say "mommy you have to stop being bad and talk to me" in which he acts like her and says "I know bubby". Last week was really hard on me because he sat down with Mario (his dad) and said with the saddest look on his face "Mommy does not love me anymore". I cried right there because I heard the hurt in his voice and I say the tears in his eyes. Right then and there I vowed to try to be strong for Jacob especially with issues that involve the bitch that is his bio mom.I may be momma Jess, but he is my son and I love him with all my beating heart.
Well to change the subject a bit, Mario and Jacob are arguing about me. Jacob wants me to have a boy and Mario wants me to have a girl. I would really love to have a girl but I will be excited no matter what. If I do have a boy that would be nice too, I won't be as nervous cause I grew up around boys.
Sunday
My Darling Family
Well I am going to catch you up with current living from March til June of 2013...
Well Mario First... In March we had some rough patches, but we did it.
Mario was at Stark State University, now he will be attending YSU starting August. So that will save me big bucks cause he won't be driving to canton all the time. The rough patches are not of me and him. They are of Mario's Ex GF and Me and the way she is treating her son.But Mario has showed on many occasions that he can take care of that. Mario is a wonderful husband and father.
Jacob is my darling little boy. We finally got Jacob to calm down. Mainly because we don't even bother telling him what day it is. Every once in a while when he sees us sitting at the PC waiting for her to video chat with him he will realize "oh today maybe the day I get to see mommy or speak to mommy. " But he has not cried at night about it anymore, because he knows it is not us keeping him from her, but it is her doing it.
I am so proud of Jacob, he passed his early preschool. He can write his name (just the first name), this year he may have to do his last name next. I hope he does not need to write his full name, that will take up a lot of paper. Lets just say he has 2 middle names and a really long last name. The 2 middle names were not our idea. Baby momma gave them to him. I know she had good intentions for them, but Jacob is the one that would have to write them on job/career/college apps not her. I feel bad for him when he gets older. Plus it will be a mouth full when I say his full name.
We went to the circus, Kalahari, next is Iowa to see family there. Jacob is super excited.
Well that is about it. Peace out...
Love Me.
Well Mario First... In March we had some rough patches, but we did it.
Mario was at Stark State University, now he will be attending YSU starting August. So that will save me big bucks cause he won't be driving to canton all the time. The rough patches are not of me and him. They are of Mario's Ex GF and Me and the way she is treating her son.But Mario has showed on many occasions that he can take care of that. Mario is a wonderful husband and father.
Jacob is my darling little boy. We finally got Jacob to calm down. Mainly because we don't even bother telling him what day it is. Every once in a while when he sees us sitting at the PC waiting for her to video chat with him he will realize "oh today maybe the day I get to see mommy or speak to mommy. " But he has not cried at night about it anymore, because he knows it is not us keeping him from her, but it is her doing it.
I am so proud of Jacob, he passed his early preschool. He can write his name (just the first name), this year he may have to do his last name next. I hope he does not need to write his full name, that will take up a lot of paper. Lets just say he has 2 middle names and a really long last name. The 2 middle names were not our idea. Baby momma gave them to him. I know she had good intentions for them, but Jacob is the one that would have to write them on job/career/college apps not her. I feel bad for him when he gets older. Plus it will be a mouth full when I say his full name.
We went to the circus, Kalahari, next is Iowa to see family there. Jacob is super excited.
Well that is about it. Peace out...
Love Me.
Tuesday
Life in ohio March 2013
Well lots of things happen in Ohio, Not just the weather changes. I mean think about it , one day it almost looks like spring has come, then next it is hail and snow.
I am happy that the Steubenville, Ohio rape case is over. I think they should have been a bit more harsher to them. They say their lives is ruined because they may not get picked by a college, but they belittled a young woman and treated her like trash. I think it would be better if they added maybe another 2 or 3 years to the minimum sentence. Let them feel what she felt like, and I see how they like it. And we cannot blame it only on the boys. The enablers are also doing it too, thinking this was not a violent crime. The police should take this as a wake up call and think more of the evidence and not boys reputations. If they would have taken the phones for evidence, they would have seen these boys were no angels.
I, myself, hate seeing people getting taken advantage of. But when people don't mind their manners and treat people the way they want to be treated, makes me feel they deserve to feel the consequences.
There is people out there saying that she deserved it because she regretted it later so called it rape. What about the photos, drunk does not mean yes and passed out does not mean come and get it... So all you close minded people need to grow up and just so the world knows I am glad the young woman and many like her can see what some sort of justice.
With other news... Today is a gloomy and snowy day and myself and Jacob is going to have fun shopping. Hope everyone it ready for Easter. I know I have not even started yet. WISH me luck.
Almost forgot, Peace out
I am happy that the Steubenville, Ohio rape case is over. I think they should have been a bit more harsher to them. They say their lives is ruined because they may not get picked by a college, but they belittled a young woman and treated her like trash. I think it would be better if they added maybe another 2 or 3 years to the minimum sentence. Let them feel what she felt like, and I see how they like it. And we cannot blame it only on the boys. The enablers are also doing it too, thinking this was not a violent crime. The police should take this as a wake up call and think more of the evidence and not boys reputations. If they would have taken the phones for evidence, they would have seen these boys were no angels.
I, myself, hate seeing people getting taken advantage of. But when people don't mind their manners and treat people the way they want to be treated, makes me feel they deserve to feel the consequences.
There is people out there saying that she deserved it because she regretted it later so called it rape. What about the photos, drunk does not mean yes and passed out does not mean come and get it... So all you close minded people need to grow up and just so the world knows I am glad the young woman and many like her can see what some sort of justice.
With other news... Today is a gloomy and snowy day and myself and Jacob is going to have fun shopping. Hope everyone it ready for Easter. I know I have not even started yet. WISH me luck.
Almost forgot, Peace out
New Years
Well we survived another year. Everyone that believed in the end of the world was 12/21/12. I bet they did not think they would see the signs of 2013. Well what do you think now.
So far it is 1/1/13 and I already had a interesting experience. I hope she reads this and if you know her let her know. Her name is Kait Keener she has many different names, my favorite is the drunken skank of my husband's past. Through out the day she was nice trying to talk to me. She got so drunk that my husband, being an EMT, felt the need to check on her while she was puking the contents of her stomach out. So while she was puking everything up and had nothing else to puke, she thought it was a good idea to confess a few things to him. First was that she was not over him yet, which we both already knew. Then she goes on and tells him in front of her bf/date that she only comes to these parties is to make him jealous and that he still misses and wants him. When my husband told her that he was happy with me and that was that. She says she doesn't care. I wonder what her boyfriend feels about that.
If you know this woman, and you a female watch your men closely. Otherwise she will get close to him using a social media site or text or ever instant messaging. She thought she can get Mario through texting and instant messaging. She has many Facebook site profiles and she has no problem pretending to be your friend and use you to get close either.
Why am I writing about it now in my blog because I am posting it to warn others. I know I don't have many followers, but I hope others that know her will learn what I know.
And other than that I have a wonderful year. We won custody of Mario's adorable son, had a blast at Kalahari two times this year. Jacob only got sick 2 times, no lice, going to preschool and healthy big boy. I am proud to be his step mom.
So far it is 1/1/13 and I already had a interesting experience. I hope she reads this and if you know her let her know. Her name is Kait Keener she has many different names, my favorite is the drunken skank of my husband's past. Through out the day she was nice trying to talk to me. She got so drunk that my husband, being an EMT, felt the need to check on her while she was puking the contents of her stomach out. So while she was puking everything up and had nothing else to puke, she thought it was a good idea to confess a few things to him. First was that she was not over him yet, which we both already knew. Then she goes on and tells him in front of her bf/date that she only comes to these parties is to make him jealous and that he still misses and wants him. When my husband told her that he was happy with me and that was that. She says she doesn't care. I wonder what her boyfriend feels about that.
If you know this woman, and you a female watch your men closely. Otherwise she will get close to him using a social media site or text or ever instant messaging. She thought she can get Mario through texting and instant messaging. She has many Facebook site profiles and she has no problem pretending to be your friend and use you to get close either.
Why am I writing about it now in my blog because I am posting it to warn others. I know I don't have many followers, but I hope others that know her will learn what I know.
And other than that I have a wonderful year. We won custody of Mario's adorable son, had a blast at Kalahari two times this year. Jacob only got sick 2 times, no lice, going to preschool and healthy big boy. I am proud to be his step mom.
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