I was thinking if you look back when I was growing up tivio, smartphone, and tiny ipod did not exist. I thought it was the bomb when i got cable and internet. If you think about it we have so much now than we ever did.
GPS was called a map or mapquest
Ipod was a cassette player
Ereader was a book
blue ray was dvd, and dvd was vhs
wii fit was a gym
well you get my point. I love how technology has grown and It is awesome.
Monday
Wednesday
July 2012
Well today is July 25th and it was a wonderful month. My brother graduated from high school. Jacob is with us and went to the beach on the 24th. I finally get Sundays off from work and me and Mario's 1year mark of our wedding happens in less than a month. And hopefully no more baby momma drama.
And on the 31st i get my next tattoo.
I hate drama
For this month, there was no need for the crap that happened.
Week of May 5th my step son gets returned home in a 24 month jumper, no socks, tennis shoes, and nail polish.
So when the week of Mother's day, we asked her to not paint his nails or have anyone else paint his nails, and she flipped out. Then we told him for now on needs to be in clothes that fit him with socks with tennis shoes. She threaten to take Jacob then told her mother that Mario threatened her. so I was seat right there and we know how to cover ourselves.
Then then week of the 20th she decided to play nice, knowing we are not scared of her threats and it will do more damage to her then hurt to us.
But what gets me the most she blames me, probably because she still wants to be with Mario and it is easier to blame me when I am not around. But she needs to realize Mario is a married man and he is the one that makes his own mind up. I can only tell him what to do, he can choose to listen or not. So she needs to think about that again.
This week ( Memorial Day Weekend) I wonder if she has it in her to actually say something to me. I guess we will see.
****Update**** (5/29/12)
Well she did not do anything. She acted nice and so did her step dad, because she needs a body guard. All I want is for everyone to be able to live in the same world together without killing each other. Is that so hard to do. It is not like Jacob asked to have 2 parents that hate each other.
I just hope that she does the same as us. We get Jacob excited to go over to his mother's so that he is not thinking we hate each other. It makes a huge difference, because when we first say it is almost time to leave to see mommy. And then he looks at you and says I will miss you and I don't want to be hurt.
17 more days till Kalahari. Jacob, Mario, Russ and Caryn are exciting. This is going to be a blast.
Week of May 5th my step son gets returned home in a 24 month jumper, no socks, tennis shoes, and nail polish.
So when the week of Mother's day, we asked her to not paint his nails or have anyone else paint his nails, and she flipped out. Then we told him for now on needs to be in clothes that fit him with socks with tennis shoes. She threaten to take Jacob then told her mother that Mario threatened her. so I was seat right there and we know how to cover ourselves.
Then then week of the 20th she decided to play nice, knowing we are not scared of her threats and it will do more damage to her then hurt to us.
But what gets me the most she blames me, probably because she still wants to be with Mario and it is easier to blame me when I am not around. But she needs to realize Mario is a married man and he is the one that makes his own mind up. I can only tell him what to do, he can choose to listen or not. So she needs to think about that again.
This week ( Memorial Day Weekend) I wonder if she has it in her to actually say something to me. I guess we will see.
****Update**** (5/29/12)
Well she did not do anything. She acted nice and so did her step dad, because she needs a body guard. All I want is for everyone to be able to live in the same world together without killing each other. Is that so hard to do. It is not like Jacob asked to have 2 parents that hate each other.
I just hope that she does the same as us. We get Jacob excited to go over to his mother's so that he is not thinking we hate each other. It makes a huge difference, because when we first say it is almost time to leave to see mommy. And then he looks at you and says I will miss you and I don't want to be hurt.
17 more days till Kalahari. Jacob, Mario, Russ and Caryn are exciting. This is going to be a blast.
Monday
thoughts that crossed my mind today 5/7/12
I am a step mother to a wonderful little guy. But his biological mother
kinda makes me mad. Not for the fact that she is the real mother, but
for the way she treated him from birth til now. He has been through so much and he has no idea about it because he was so young and still is.
all she can do is blame it on this person and that person. I am so
happy that he now has a proper roof over his head and a sable family
environment. Of course not every family is perfect, but he really needed
to get out of that house.
Tuesday
April 17
Sorry for not being on lately. I am happy. We go custody of Jacob. Now we are trying to get stay in peace with Mario's baby momma and so far we have been OK, just a few incidents.
Jacob is transitioning perfectly. I love him so much. I hope everything continues in his favor and well-being.
Other than that, I am still working and Mario is still in college. Jacob is loving it here.
Jacob is transitioning perfectly. I love him so much. I hope everything continues in his favor and well-being.
Other than that, I am still working and Mario is still in college. Jacob is loving it here.
This is awesome news for 2012
As of February 13 of 2012 Jacob will be living with us and we will get out custody. The papers say joint and I hope she keeps it that way. I hope she will stay involved in his life forever. Jacob deserves both parents, and i will treat him as if he is my own. Basically that mean Jacob is going to be the luckiest baby I know. He will have mother's family, father's family and my family. He will be spoiled rotten.
More news later.
More news later.
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